Sunday, December 1, 2013

Virgin a Day, 2013 - Day 1 Anne and Mary

I saw this image a few days ago on Carol Christ's FB page with the explanation:
No it is not Mother Mary and baby Jesus, it is baby Mary with her Mother Anna, a reminder of Persephone and Demeter, and the ancient reverence for the generations of women.
First, I really like this type of iconography.  A lot.

Secondly, it got me thinking about Mary as a baby/child/girl/maiden - Virgin.

And about Demeter and Persephone.  About Mother and Daughter.  About their relationship.  About what knowledge is transmitted through Mother to Daughter, both in utero and after birth.

(Image from here)

It makes me want to know what kind of book Anne and Mary are reading in Murillo's painting.  Women in ancient patriarchal cultures weren't afforded the luxury of being educated - even in current times, many females are not deemed worthy of being educated - look at Malala shot last year by the Taliban for going to school.

I've read that Mary was dedicated to the temple at the young age of 3.  Perhaps the temple was not a Jewish temple since they did not accept females.  Perhaps it was a temple dedicated to the ancient Goddess, one which would have accepted girls.   Perhaps this book was one that contained their scriptures.

Perhaps it contained poetry, like this one written by Donna Wilshire:
Spring's daughter,
Full of Herself and Her blooming
Her Becoming
Her skin, flowering fresh petals
dew-pink, golden or brown
Her blushing parts vibrant
burgeoning with Possibility
Oh the Possibilities in Herself
the blossoming of Herself
the belonging to Herself

Not belonging to mother,
not to father,
not to lover,
The Virgin belongs to Herself alone!

Youth exultant
Exulting in Her first bleeding
Exulting in Her connection to the earth
Exulting that She cycles with the moon
Exulting in Her magically transforming body

She--waxing, incipient
She--the sliver of New Moon
barely becoming
Hebe--the Virgin Moon!

This is the temple of Hebe, Virgin
In this temple, we celebrate spring
and all new beginnings,
starting over, renewing ourselves.
In this temple, we celebrate gifts that come unbidden,
being full of possibility,
pregnant with potential.
This temple of becoming! (F, p. 149 - 52)
I'm not one who subscribes to the usual definition of Virgin as a woman who has not had sexual intercourse.  I rather like this definition:

With her title "Holy Virgin," Mary joined the ranks of many other Goddesses with the same title: Athena, Asherah, AstarteAphroditeVenusAnat, IshtarDiana, and others. Clearly, since many of these Goddesses are also "Love Goddesses," the ancient meaning of the word "virgin" differs from our modern conception. 

"Virgin" indicated an independent autonomous woman, a woman not required to answer to any man or child. The title had little to do with abstinence from sexual intercourse (A, B, *). 

Perhaps Anne was relating the ancient stories from women and about women who were free and unencumbered by any philosophy or religion.  Perhaps she was teaching the connection between the female body, sexuality and the deep connection to Nature.  Perhaps she was explaining that freedom was the path of and to unconditional love.

Far more interesting for me to ponder than the Madonna/Whore dichotomy that's been pushed on to women.

Rebecca is hosting another yearly Virgin A Day over at her place - be sure to check out all of the offerings.


  1. dear delphyne,
    i too find myself thinking of mothers and daughters and how our love lives on in the hearts around us; the mindful offering of unconditional love being the most essential.
    this is the nectar of life, the core, the true essence of existence; to love willingly, and generously. so grateful to have your thought provoking posts to share as we look to light in this season of darkness.

  2. I never had heard of there being a different meaning of virgin in those times. It gives one a different perspective about Mary. Thank you for opening my eyes wider- I did not make note of the book. Perhaps it was a book for young ladies and their responsibilities.
    I really love the painting of Demeter and Persephone, especially the facial details.

  3. Such beauty but terrific insight with a goddess point of view of Mary. I view her that way myself and also as the mother of Jesus. The 12 days have begun.

  4. You've taken me on a spiritual journey that I wouldn't have embarked on myself. Thanks for the nudge!

    Life Mysterious

  5. Wonderfull post and picture, have a nice advent, greeting from Belgium

  6. Indeed indeed! The story of Mary is the story of Everywoman, both Cosmic and personal and seen through the eyes of the patriarchal! But as they say, the times are a-changing and many women are becoming the Storytellers and they tell the Story from Her perspective!


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